Feb 25 2011
Stuff That Nearly All Women Keep Secret
If it were only that simple in the world. If only we could always tell the truth. If only no one reacted or even cared about our true selves! But unfortunately we do live in the real world where people have thoughts and feelings.
Women especially are taught to hide them.
Here are five things that nearly all of us keep secret….
Commitment
The universal stereotype is that men are afraid of commitment. Many of them are, but the counter-assumption is that women are never afraid of commitment, are always ready for it, and that simply isn’t true. Girls just tend to keep it a secret — and to deal with it, by expressing it, discussing it, and coming to understand it.
Weight Issues
Most women including myself keep their weight a secret, even from their spouses. Doctors know, and that’s about it. No matter what your weight or your body type, it can just be exceedingly difficult to make that revelation to anyone, even the people you love the most. There’s an insecurity there, a fear of judgment or recrimination. Simply put, it can be awful.
Hair!
With the exception of a few escaped childhood pictures, guys may never know what their girlfriends and wives look like with their natural hair color. If your girlfriend colors her hair, you’ll just have to use your imagination. I’m guilty of this. I hide under hats when my roots start to show. It’s not so much that I’m ashamed of my natural color, I just couldn’t wait for the color to completely fade.
Hating High Heels
Although this is by no means true for every woman, a lot of the girls I talked to, and I myself, were in agreement about their hatred of high heels. They wear them a lot, but they’ll rarely admit it because they know it’s illogical and that they could be wearing something more comfortable.
Orgasms
A lot of the women I talked to copped to faking orgasms some of the time. I admit to this one myself — and never told. It’s not that you don’t want to be honest with your partner, but sometimes it depends on the partner. You never want to hurt your lover, but it’s great when you can get your relationship that open.
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Nearly all women? Really? None of these ring true for me – I’m 51.5kgs, have my natural hair colour, love wearing heels and will tell someone I’m having sex with if it’s not working for me and how we should change it. I’m not suggesting I’m more representative than your list but I think you could probably title it “this is how I feel” rather than claim these stances are shared not by just most, but nearly all, women.
Yeah, none of these really… apply at all. It seems more like stereotypes or a certain type of woman with a certain personality… maybe I am just not the majority.
i agree with tina… this did not apply to me in any way and it’s sad if this does represent the majority of women. however, given that most people believe they’re in the majority (even me!) and that it is seldom true, i suppose there’s hope.
Yeah totally agree, none of these are true for me. Sure heels can make your feet ache but I love them and if I could wear them every day I would!
I think women fake orgasms primarily because most men have egos that bruise far too easy and they put too much pressure on their partner to have an orgasm. Sex is totally about pleasure, it’s not a contest. ENJOY!
Tina / India,
You are both dream women! Women should just be themselves and be open/honest…smart men want that.
I only agree with the orgasm one. My man just doesn’t do it for me 99% of the time. No matter how I tell him he just cant get it right, or at least for long enough. So i get tired and pretend I orgasmed. lol. but I love him to death so make him happy by not hurting his feelings. he tries so hard. haha. other than that I love wearing my heels, i feel so tall and sexy in them. I dont mind my weight and have never lied about it, even when I gained 50 pounds when i ws pregnant. I have died my hair all colors, even back to my natural hair color so love it that color too (i just get bored of it someitmes). and have talked to a lot of women who have been openly afraid of commitment for whatever reason. anyhoot, still interested to read another side of things.
Jennifer hunny is not your fault that you are fat with fuck up hair and cant have an orgasm for being an dry old lady. sweetie you should visit my website. i could teach you how to burn calories while sucking a cock not is only good to lose weight but the cum can be use for your hair to get it more shiny and healthier, stronger. ok honey you lame ass bitch have a nice day and stop assuming we all feel the same way because we dont. start taking it up the ass you’ll feel better
THIS IS BULLSHIT
So funny video ha ha ha. Thanks
Well it rang true for me…
Wow, those last two comments were not cold hearted at all. People are just plain rude these days. What happened to keeping your bitchy comments to yourself? But this is a blog that people are free to say whatever they please, douchey or not :]
Anyways, I actually love wearing heels! – When they don’t hurt of coruse, which is never, lol. But the reason I do like them, is because of the sexyness to them
And I always avoid that, “weight” talk. I mean, I tell my boyfriend all the time about my insecurites, and he makes me feel better. But there is always those other people who call me fat :/ I mean, only, like 0.01% people think I’m big, but those are the complete anorexic people.
And If I did dye my hair, I would agree with that. I mean, I know my friend does that ALL the time. It’s like every week she has a different hair color. I know, we are supposed to be discrete about this kind of stuff, but she obviously isn’t, lol
And never had sex, so couldn’t tell ya
Honestly, only INSECURE women would agree with this list. If you honestly cannot tell someone your true weight, feelings toward intimacy, real hair color and your stance on commitment then you are probably not going to get anywhere in life.
See? You’re all lying! hahaha.